i was at a pool party in a lake and this older man started following me in the lake and everytime he got too close i woke up in the dream this happened 3 times
This dream could symbolize feelings of vulnerability or fear of being pursued in some aspect of your waking life. The pool party setting suggests a social atmosphere where you may feel exposed or uncomfortable. The older man following you in the lake may represent a person or situation that you perceive as a threat or source of anxiety.
The fact that you wake up each time he gets too close could suggest a subconscious desire to escape or avoid this perceived threat. It may be worth reflecting on any relationships or circumstances in your life that make you feel anxious or pursued. Try to identify the source of these feelings and consider how you can address them in your waking life to alleviate these concerns.